Some days as a working mom of triplets, I feel like I can’t do anything right. I can’t get my kids to nap, to eat, to brush their teeth, to get dressed, to put away their toys, you name it. And I can’t finish grading/prepping/emailing/organizing at work before racing home for the trio’s dinner. And on these days, when two kids are screaming, only one is in his high chair, one won’t let me put her down, no one is eating, and there is now turkey bolognese sauce splattered across our rug, it’s all I can do to keep it together until bedtime.
Other days? I feel like Supermom. Today was one of those days.
Let me be clear.
Jack woke up screaming for Daddy and refused to let me pick him up out of his crib. Eventually he caved.
Sophie had a meltdown at the playground and I couldn’t put her down, so we had to leave. And the only reason we were able to GET to the playground is because I had a second set of adult eyes, ears, and hands (thanks, Kare)!
Protein count for the day? A WHOLE LOT OF cheese and yogurt. WAY too much cheese and yogurt. Oh! And eggs! Well, 2/3 of them had eggs anyway. But I got them to eat eggs this morning! Another point for Supermom. Veggie count for the day? Approximately three peas between them, and one piece of a carrot that Jack thought was a sweet potato, and when he realized it wasn’t, he was pretty disappointed. Minus one for Supermom. So as far as food goes, it’s a wash.
There are stickers EVERYWHERE.
Sophie ate a piece of blue chalk.
Jack cried/whined/moaned for Daddy and then Mommy for about thirty minutes during his nap, and I let him. Because Sophie had only fallen asleep ten minutes earlier.
They watched one episode of Sesame Street and two of Curious George.
They flooded the bathroom during their bath and I kind of let them.
Jack refused to brush his teeth.
Henry wore the same shirt today that he wore all day yesterday AND slept in.
Sophie didn’t eat any dinner, partly because she threw a tantrum for two yogurt pouches about an hour before (and then found Jack’s leftover snack cup and ate the rest of his crackers), and partly because she almost never eats dinner. She will surely wake up starving and CRANKY.
They pretty much trashed the apartment seventeen times today.
By 7:00, the kids were all in bathed, diapered, fed, happy, and in their beds. By 7:30, the kitchen was clean. By 8:30, the living room was clean, the art supplies were organized, and I was (am) sitting on the couch.
And over the course of the day, I…
- Made (does microwaving mac ‘n cheese count as “making food?”) three meals for my kids and myself, and we ate them together
- Got all the kids dressed and out the door before 9am (in coats, socks, and shoes)! We went to CVS.
- Did a LOT of “drawing” with H, J, and S in their new Sesame Street coloring books
- Made a ladybug with H, S, and J. Ok, I made the ladybug, and they stuck a couple of stickers on. But they were really excited about the whole thing!
- Made a “chalkboard” on our hallway wall
- Enjoyed a visit from Karen and Emi
- Mopped the kitchen floor and the hallway (this was kind of necessary after all the chalk)
- Cleaned our bathroom
- Updated my math pages for school
- Snuck two crying boys out of the nursery without Sophie waking up
- Prevented said boys from reentering the nursery to find Sophie no fewer than five times
- Completed 11/12 of a 7-minute workout
- Vacuumed! Again with the chalk. And the sand…
- Cleaned out the refrigerator
- Survived FaceTime with the kiddos and Will without a meltdown
- Found a place to hide the chalk so they don’t (maybe?) ask for it every five seconds
- Smiled a lot
That last one is the main reason I feel like Supermom today. Maybe it’s because I didn’t spend 10 hours at my “other” job today. Maybe it’s because the day started and ended without any rush to get everyone ready or everyone into bed so that I can finallly take off my work clothes (or race out the door to tutoring). Maybe it’s because Henry, Jack, and Sophie finally decided to nap for me again (even if the simultaneous napping was relatively short-lived).
I was terrified this weekend without Will would be the DEATH of me. All crying and no napping. And while we sure missed Daddy (everytime we woke up, in fact…), it wasn’t nearly as awful as I thought it would be. In fact, it wasn’t even close. Will, if you’re reading this, we love you. We miss you. We need you! And I promise tomorrow morning is going to feel MISERABLE without you. But I survived, and I even mostly enjoyed myself, and THAT’s why I feel like Supermom today.
I’m sure it was because I had help from friends. I’m quite certain yesterday would have been a no-nap kinda Saturday if Grace hadn’t swooped in. I would have been much crankier without yesterday’s run in the park (thanks again to Grace). I know we wouldn’t have gotten out to the playground either day without Grace and then Karen. I’m not sure anyone would have eaten anything all weekend if not for Linden and Esme’s mac ‘n cheese. Today would have felt much longer and less exciting without Karen and Emi’s visit. And this weekend would have felt much lonelier without the company of friends not once, not twice, but three times including last night. And even though there was a part of me that sort of wanted to tackle the entire weekend entirely on my own (just to prove I could, in a Type A, perfectionistic, competitive kind of way…all my greatest qualities shining through), I’m really glad I didn’t have to.